Irrelationship How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships To Hide From Intimacy

Author : Mark Borg
Publisher : Central Recovery Press, LLC
ISBN 13 : 1942094000
Total Pages : 258 pages
Book Rating : 4.05/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Irrelationships written by Mark Borg and published by Central Recovery Press, LLC. This book was released on 2015-10-13 with total page 258 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Three experienced psychotherapists present a clear and engaging examination of recurring love relationship problems and how to resolve them.

Author : Mark B. Borg
Publisher : Central Recovery Press, LLC
ISBN 13 : 1942094019
Total Pages : 258 pages
Book Rating : 4.12/5 ( download)

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Download or read book IRRELATIONSHIP: How we use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy written by Mark B. Borg and published by Central Recovery Press, LLC. This book was released on 2015-09-28 with total page 258 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: No matter how committed two people are to being together, why can't they get away from feeling something is missing? In this important and transformative guide, three experienced practitioners identify the widespread dysfunctional dynamic they call "irrelationship," a psychological defense system two people create together to protect themselves from the fear and anxiety of real intimacy in a relationship. Drawing on their wide clinical and life experience, the authors examine behavioral "song-and-dance routines" repeatedly performed by couples affected by irrelationship. Readers will find a valuable framework for understanding their challenges with action-oriented tools to help them navigate their way to fulfilling relationships. Mark B. Borg, Jr., PhD, is a community psychologist and psychoanalyst, and a supervisor of psychotherapy at the William Alanson White Institute. Grant H. Brenner, MD, is a board-certified psychiatrist in private practice, specializing in treating mood and anxiety disorders and the complex problems that may arise in adulthood from childhood trauma and loss. Daniel Berry, RN, MHA, has practiced as a Registered Nurse in New York City since 1987 and has worked for almost two decades in community-based programs.

Author : Mark B. Borg, Jr., PhD
Publisher : Central Recovery Press
ISBN 13 : 1942094825
Total Pages : 209 pages
Book Rating : 4.21/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Relationship Sanity written by Mark B. Borg, Jr., PhD and published by Central Recovery Press. This book was released on 2018-11-20 with total page 209 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A vital guide to overcome the barriers to achieving intimacy and meaningful connection. People in resilient relationships are co-owners, experience reciprocity, and are better prepared to meet challenges authentically and effectively. In this sequel to the best-selling Irrelationship, the authors use examples from their clinical practice to review the concept of irrelationship and expand the DREAM Sequence, a tool used by affected couples to address perennial relationship issues. By mutually and mindfully viewing the relationship as a third entity, separate from each individual, couples will learn how to live in and with the ambiguity of empathy, intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional investment and view relationship sanity as a deliberate and joyful undertaking to maintain and deepen connection.

Author : Mark B. Borg
Publisher : Central Recovery Press
ISBN 13 : 1949481549
Total Pages : 163 pages
Book Rating : 4.49/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Making Your Crazy Work for You written by Mark B. Borg and published by Central Recovery Press. This book was released on 2022-02-01 with total page 163 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From the authors of the Irrelationship series comes an insightful guidebook for enhancing the most vital relationship in every person's life—the one they have with themselves. Making Your Crazy Work for You adopts the irrelationship model to present a step-by-step program for self-understanding and catalyzing change. Our "crazy" refers to our unique reaction to our own pain, fear, and anxiety brought on by isolation from others and ourself. This unrecognized isolation can occur even when we are surrounded by other people in our daily lives. However, by learning to listen to our craziness, we can use it as a tool for ending isolation and opening up to love. Drawn from the authors' personal experience and clinical practice, each chapter features new case studies, exercises, and tools to help readers to reverse unhealthy behavior patterns learn to access their genuine emotions, needs, and ideas create better relationships

Author : Rebecca Coleman Curtis
Publisher : Routledge
ISBN 13 : 1000331652
Total Pages : 345 pages
Book Rating : 4.53/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Belonging Through a Psychoanalytic Lens written by Rebecca Coleman Curtis and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2020-12-29 with total page 345 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Watching people protest, one hypothesis is that underlying these actions for specific justifiable causes is a sense of wishing to belong, of wishing not to be alone. Recent knowledge from patients and empirical research shows the importance of belonging to groups to both psychological and physical well-being. The problems of many students, minority group members, immigrants, terrorists, and lonely people are linked to an insufficient sense of belonging. Whereas psychoanalytic theory has focused on the need for a secure attachment to a primary caretaker, it has failed to note the importance of a sense of belonging to the family group, a friendship group, a community, a religious group, a nation-state, etc. This book demonstrates the difficulties faced by those who immigrate, those who never feel a sense of their true selves as belonging in a family or a cohesive professional group, and the difficulties of psychoanalysts themselves in knowing where they belong in patients’ lives. The problems of breaking up marital and professional relationships as well as our relationship with the Earth are also discussed. Freudian theory rejected the idea of a sense of "oneness" with humanity as being infantile. Recent developments regarding the similarities between meditational practices and psychoanalysis have questioned Freud’s idea. This book shows the importance of an interpersonal/relational psychoanalysis focusing on real relationships and not simply one that examines inner conflicts. It will be useful to psychologists, other mental health practitioners, social scientists, and anyone with normal struggles in life.

Author : Mark B. Borg
Publisher : Central Recovery Press
ISBN 13 : 1949481034
Total Pages : 183 pages
Book Rating : 4.37/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Don't Be A Dick written by Mark B. Borg and published by Central Recovery Press. This book was released on 2019-11-19 with total page 183 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The single book therapists everywhere will recommend to all of their patients, because at some point or another, we all behave like dicks. Why this book? Because you might be a dick: a mean-spirited, self-focused individual who thinks and acts as though everyone else in the world can only be understood—and whose only importance is defined—in terms of their relationship to you. Being a dick might feel powerful in the short term, but it is not helping you in the long term because this flawed character trait is exactly what’s keeping you from attaining what you may want most: personal fulfillment, satisfying work, a loving committed relationship, and lifelong friendships. Anyone, at any time, can be a dick. Yet Don’t Be a Dick is especially for people who have noticed how their own behavior tends to backfire, leaving them feeling isolated and unsure why their seemingly justified actions consistently yield such poor results. If you’re constantly using the refrain, It’s not me, it’s them whenever something goes wrong, Mark Borg is here to tell you that it is, in fact, you. The good news is there is something you can do to reverse these behaviors and live a happier, more fulfilling life.

Author : Ben Kamin
Publisher : Central Recovery Press, LLC
ISBN 13 : 1942094051
Total Pages : 109 pages
Book Rating : 4.50/5 ( download)

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Download or read book I Don't Know What to Believe written by Ben Kamin and published by Central Recovery Press, LLC. This book was released on 2016-02-01 with total page 109 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Americans—especially young people—are more un-churched and less affiliated with organized religion than at any other time in our history. I Don’t Know What to Believe addresses that decline and presents an insightful examination of authentic spirituality for those who desire answers, guidance, and perspective regarding an important aspect of their lives: their beliefs, and relationship to, a higher power. Rabbi Ben Kamin addresses questions he has received from real people over the thirty years of his ministry, such as: Why does my parents’ religion have to define me? Am I God’s child even if I don’t go to religious services? Does scripture include me in its ideology regardless of how much scripture I know? How do I follow my own spirituality while still respecting my parents’ traditions? Ben Kamin is the award-winning author of ten books and is a scholar on the life and work of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. He has led congregations in Toronto, New York, Cleveland, and San Diego since his ordination in 1978.

Author : Lori Heyman Gordon
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
ISBN 13 : 0671795961
Total Pages : 300 pages
Book Rating : 4.62/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Passage to Intimacy written by Lori Heyman Gordon and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 1993 with total page 300 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The "intimacy course" hailed by Good Morning America, The Today Show, People magazine and Newsweek contains practical tools to enrich, repair, deepen, or rekindle intimate partnerships. Part of the successfully proven PAIRS Program. Line drawings.

Author : Robin Norwood
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
ISBN 13 : 1416550216
Total Pages : 355 pages
Book Rating : 4.11/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Women Who Love Too Much written by Robin Norwood and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2008-04-08 with total page 355 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Discusses "loving too much" as a pattern of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors which certain women develop as a reponse to various problems in their family backgrounds.

Author : Terence T. Gorski
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
ISBN 13 : 1439147477
Total Pages : 270 pages
Book Rating : 4.74/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Getting Love Right written by Terence T. Gorski and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2012-09-11 with total page 270 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO LEARN HOW TO LOVE When you fall in love you may be repeating bad relationship habits that you learned growing up or in a previous unhealthy relationship. No matter what your history, Getting Love Right can explain how to build and maintain healthy intimacy, including: * How to recognize if you are in a compulsive, apathetic, or healthy relationship * How to become a person who is capable of healthy intimacy * How to choose a healthy partner If you are in a relationship or want to be in one, Terence T. Gorski will teach you that love isn't just something that happens -- love is something you can learn.